Monday, July 12, 2010

Choosing the Right Tie for the Right Situation

Submitted By: Dave Matthews
(Etiquette)

Choosing a tie is quite a task. Many men give up at a certain stage in their life because they don’t feel they can ever get it right. Get the tie choice wrong in any way, and it could affect your chances of getting a job, for example. Some men stick to just a few ties and don’t try any harder than that.

However, it is possible to choose a tie with real intent as regards the impact you are going to make. You can use a good tie to make a great first impression on a boss
Choosing the Right Tie for the Right Situation

or client. You can impress a potential partner with the choice of tie you make. And you can even calm people down with an appropriate tie.

The basic piece of advice if you work in the corporate world is to make sure that your ties match the environment in the office. If your office, for example, is rather conformist and conservative, wear dark ties that accentuate this mood of muted sophistication. You should not wear black, but there are many colours out there, especially in the navy blue area, that are close to this and have that great muted effect that can have such a calming and solid impact on the work environment.

If you work in advertising or some other such creative environment, a muted colour may not be the way to go. You may even want to go absolutely crazy with colour and have wild floral designs with bursts of vivid colour on them, or even the old classic that is the piano tie. If you intend to do this at your place of work, make sure that the choice of tie does meet the mood, or you could be making a rather serious error.

The best width for the ties that you wear is around nine centimetres. Some ties do differ in this regard, but this width should be in place for the majority of ties in your wardrobe, because it is generally acceptable. If you want to instantly tell the quality of a tie by the way, there is one very simple test. All you have to do is tie it, and then if the tie falls over the knot easily and smoothly, you have a tie that is worth looking after.

It is vitally important that you choose a tie that very obviously goes with your shirt and suit. It will be very noticeable if you do not do this. Essentially, a patterned tie that is reasonably eye-catching matches very well with a solid tone and conservative suit. The same is true for vice versa, so it should be relatively easy to take the ties that you currently have in your wardrobe and match them up with suits and shirts.

It is always a good idea to buy one tie at a time, so that you can get used to it. And ties should be enjoyed. Don’t forget that they are responsible for many first impressions, both good and bad.

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Wedding Day Etiquette & Preparations For The Mother Of The Groom

Submitted By: Jennife Carter
(Etiquette)

Once your son has announced his engagement, after the celebrations have finished, it’s a mum’s duty & pleasure to start to plan for his wedding day.

As mother of the groom, you have far less responsibility than the bride’s mother, however, there are still many ways that you can help & assist your son in getting ready for his wedding.

The first role is to meet the bride’s parents after the engagement is announced. Sometimes this is a formal dinner, though can also be an informal get together. As
Wedding Day Etiquette & Preparations For The Mother Of The Groom

you may be working together with the parents over the next few months, having a relaxed opportunity to get to know them can be invaluable.

One of the first roles of the engaged couple will be to draw up a guest list – after all, you can’t even begin to decide what church or reception location you will have until you have an idea of the number of guests. As parents you have an opportunity to provide a list of family & close friends who you would like to be invited. With modern etiquette, it may depend on how much you are contributing financially as to how many of your guests are invited. If the bride & groom are paying for the wedding themselves, then it may only be close family who are invited.

It’s usual for the brides and grooms parents to buy them generous gifts. However, you may prefer to pay more towards the considerable cost of the wedding and buy a smaller gift. If you can, do talk with your son about what he and his fiancĂ©e would prefer.

Etiquette rules say that the groom’s mother should wait until the mother of the bride has chosen her outfit and then buy hers to complement, rather than clash. Of course, many modern mums do not follow these rules, but if you have good relations and want to keep them with your future daughter in laws parents, it may be nice to abide by this old fashioned rule.

Your outfit is often one of the most formal at the wedding, usually a matching suit or a dress and jacket, finished off with a stylish hat. Make sure to allow plenty of time to buy your outfit and accessories, as things tend to get a little hectic in the weeks leading up to the wedding.

On the wedding day, you’ll be expected to help your son with his preparations and may be one of the people who, in addition to his best man, help him stay calm until the ceremony.

It’s usual for the parents and family of the groom to sit on the right hand side of the church (as you face the altar) and to have reserved front row seats. You may also be involved in signing the register after the ceremony and will be part of the procession back down the aisle, often holding the arm of the bride’s father.

After the wedding, there’s plenty of photographs, so make sure your makeup is still in place and that you’re looking your best.

Following this, you’ll usually be a part of the receiving line for guests, where you’ll have an opportunity to greet old friends and meet the friends of your son and daughter-in-law.

At the wedding reception you can expected to be seated at the top table with other close members of family and the bridal party. Once the formal proceedings are over, it’s an opportunity to spend time with guests and catch up on news with those you haven’t seen for a while.

Finally, after the bride & groom leave on their honeymoon there’s plenty of tidying up and little jobs that will need to be done – for example, suits to be returned, clothes to be cleaned and thankyou cards to write.

After all this, make sure you plan to have a day or two relaxing with your feet up for a well deserved rest!

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Sunday, May 30, 2010

5 Tips For Men on Managing Their Curly Hair

Submitted By: Simon Johnnson
(Etiquette)

Men with curly hair usually have problems with dryness, coarseness, not to mention brittle hair.(Etiquette) Curly hair also tends to get frizzier during the more humid seasons.(Etiquette)

But fear not! Maintaining your curly hair isn’t as difficult as it may seem.There are a whole range of hair-care products available in the market. Men’s hair products and hair-cuts are all at your fingertips to manage your curls without going broke.(Etiquette)
5 Tips For Men on Managing Their Curly Hair

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